Thank you peeps - well it wasn't all bad - just having a grump there - work brought in extra biccies and cake and gave me a present and I had a cake with candles and a meal made for me in the evening and have polished off a very nice merlot
Not to mention a variety of friends coming into work and bringing me cards and birthday wishes
I shall stop feeling sorry for myself now and make the teenie pay with some hoovering tomorrow